Olivia's Best Networking Tips

 

  February 2007
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Quick Tips:
Making the Most of your Mentoring Relationship

New Article:
The Art of Capital Criticism

Turning Small Talk
Into Big Talk

Upcoming Seminar: Charisma, Influence and Persuasion


 

 

Quick Tips:
Making the Most of your Mentoring Relationship

@ Don’t limit yourself to one mentor– you can have one for every area you’d like to improve in


@ Don’t (ever!) approach a potential mentor without having done your research and knowing why it’s a right fit, what you have in common with them, and what you will do for them.


@ Don't be vague: know you want your mentor to help you with


@ Do follow through or follow up on your mentor’s advice. Either do it, or let them know why you couldn’t or didn’t.



 


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Dear Olivia,

As always, you'll find enclosed the most practical tips and tools I've found for networking, business development and communication.

Warm wishes for this wintry weather! Yours,
Olivia

 

New Article:

The Art of Capital Criticism

Ahh, criticism. Or, in our more modern, politically correct terminology, constructive feedback. That bane of performance reviews. The part you dread for weeks. No matter what you call it, it’s the act of telling someone that something they’re doing, thinking or being is, in your opinion, wrong.

Of course, criticism is not confined to hierarchical relations: you may find it necessary towards peers, superiors or even—gasp—your own clients. Biting the hand that feeds you? Not necessarily—sometimes, criticism is necessary to the well-being of all people involved. It could be useful to clear the air, to move things forward, to help someone in their career, or for any number of performance-improving reasons.

Read on: take 10 seconds to tell us your opinion and we'll email you the article!

Turning Small Talk
 Into Big Talk

Have you ever felt annoyed, disturbed or simply bored out of your mind by the superficiality of most cocktail party small talk? Here’s a simple exercise to cut through the layers of polite reserve, adapted from Professor Srikumar S. Rao’s brilliant course,Creativity and Personal Mastery.

When you meet someone at a cocktail party, imagine, while facing them, that it’s their last day on earth. The minute you do this, you’ll notice that your behavior, your attention, changes– and theirs will react accordingly. You’ll naturally find yourself gravitating towards more authentic, more personal, more solid conversation topics, queries, and answers.

The conversation will instantly take on a whole new level...

 

Upcoming Seminar:
Becoming a Master Communicator

 
The MIT Alumni Club Of New York
Proudly Presents...

Becoming a Master Communicator:
How to achieve greater influence and persuasion

An interactive seminar with Olivia Fox Cabane.

 

Event Date: Tuesday, January 31st, 2007 starting 6:30 p.m.

In this dynamic session, you will learn immediately applicable tools to:
• Build and maintain extraordinary business relationships;
• Reshape the business relationships that you already have to whatever you want them to be;
• Master the power of nonverbal communication;
• Become a master of influence and persuasion;
 

Not an MIT alum? Not a problem! If you know any alumni, they can bring you along as their guest. And if you don't, let us know, we might just be able to find you a "sponsor".

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